I detest anyone who hit on someone who is a family member or directly under their control. If you want to show who's the man let's go out and see who first can pick up a chick.
Now I must add, that as Muslim, we are allowed to marry our cousins. So if you like your cousin and want to make them your spouse, that's okay!
Where did this come from? Is it in the Koran or is this something based on tradition because it was done by the Prophet?
I have Muslim family who did this but other family members oppose it...