You mean these men turn to the bamzie and now they hate women?
More along the lines of their conflict re their sexuality resulting in an inability to please their women. She goes outside the relationship and their rage rises up and they beat her. Even if she doesn't go outside the relationship, their feelings of sexual inadequacy can produce rage. Incidentally, both of these factors may also cause them to commit suicide. Either DV or suicide is their outlet.
Just wondering out loud