The internet is not the place to look for love. Sex maybe but not love. Seeking sex on the internet will end up with you either getting screwed or being screwed. Either way, there is definitely screwing. Obviously, my comment suggests that roja done.
If you seek love, try going to the park, a ballgame or the mall but be careful at the mall as you may just end up with a shopping lover.
Kaz...for a Muslim brother, you saying a lot of stuff thats haram...hope you going to juma on this Friday...