Gerhard my deepest condolences to you and your son and family. .this pain is unbelievable. . I m going through it right now first hand.. ppl say it get better everyday. Well three months ago I hit rock bottom and still trying to get up and face life.. the fact of the matter grief and at your pace.. the acceptance and peace will come.. it will then it goes and come again and again. But i m sure you do not want to see her suffer anymore.. as some one said to me why do you want your mom to stay alive for you to see her suffer? They are right ..life is like four seasons..i pray you find comfort .. my found mine with taking time off and reflecting on the good times..but must say it is very difficult.  Take care and bless 

Amber

Sorry to hear that you mom gone to the great beyond . 

Sorry to hear about your mom Ambi. Life has a way of throwing us curveballs. I was talking to one of my former co-workers yesterday and she was reflecting on how they were by my in-laws less than two weeks before my mother-in-law passed away and how much life she and my father-in-law had only for both of them to leave us three weeks apart. I wouldn't try to tell you that it will get easier but I would be lying. I do pray that you get the strength to deal with it. 

Awww guys thanks a lot but this thread is about Gerhard. .. Kaz sorry abt your loss..

My sincere condolences G. 

Wishing Gerhard, wife and family best wishes for a speedy recovery

Prayers from my family to yours .